This & That - 3 Things!

Well, my friends, it really has been FOREVER since I wrote a 'This & That' post.  I just looked and it's been almost a year.  What can I say?  

In the interest of keeping this from being the longest post ever, let's just talk about 3 things:  My ear surgery (because I promised to explain in a past post), Keepin' it Real, and a couple of pics of life at the cottage.  

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Ready?  Here we go.....

The Ear Surgery
In all honesty, this story starts in 2023.  That was the Estate Sale, Auntie B & 'Aunti-biotics post.  Oh, was I sick.  No ear infection, but lots of fluid.  After that, I couldn't go anywhere that was musty/moldy without my ears reacting, sometimes with an infection.  
Finally, in the Fall of 2024, after 2 different ENT doctors and a case of Sudden Sensorineural Hearing (that's a story in and of itself - just Google it), I was given ventilation tubes in my ears to prevent fluid and ear infections.
Great right?  Not so fast!
My hearing was muffled.  When I complained about it the standard response was:
1.  A hearing test - which initially was good.
2.  Steroids - when it wasn't.  
As you probably already know, steroids are really bad for you and this was not a long-term solution.

At this point, we're into 2025 and we've decided to buy a house and move.  My hearing wasn't good, but I put that aside and focused on the tasks associated with buying a house and moving.  

After moving, the tube fell out of my left ear. 

Literally, on the floor. 

Time to find a new ENT doctor!

Over the next few months, my new doctor thought it best to see of the holes left by the tubes (yes, the other one fell out soon after the first) would heal on their own.  In addition, he ordered allergy testing and a CT scan.  
The allergy testing showed no allergy to mold and the CT scan showed a significant infection in my sphenoid sinus.  That's the one in the middle of your head, behind your eyes, and directly below your brain.  Needless to say, I was treated with a very strong antibiotic, and, hmmmm, nobody else even considered that before putting tubes in my ears?
As time went on, the holes in my eardrums were not closing on their own and hearing was still an issue.  My doctor suggested trying paper patches, a temporary solution.  This was an in-office procedure that took minutes.  When he was done he and my husband were talking and I had to stop them to let them know that they were both significantly louder.  I was so excited!  
One month later, my hearing wasn't good again and the doctor showed me how the paper patches were no longer covering the holes in my eardrums.  
He actually has a little camera and shows me the inside of my ear canal every time I see him.  It's very cool!
He asked if I wanted to have the tympanoplasty, a surgical solution to repair the holes in my eardrums.  
Yes, please!
So, a little over a month ago I had the surgery.  A graft was taken from behind my ear and used to patch the hole in my left ear (you can only do one ear at a time).  
Recovery is slow.  There's been no bending or lifting and I have to be careful of sneezing. Also, I can NOT get the ear wet! He recommended these earplugs and these little shower caps for your ears.  It's like prepping for a deep-sea dive every time I take a shower! HA!
My ear was packed with foam for 3 weeks and when he removed it and showed my my new eardrum all I could say was, "Wow!  That's really red and angry-looking."  He assured me it was because it was new.
So, now we wait.  It can take a few months for hearing to improve but I am hopeful since the paper patches made such a difference.  I see him in September for my follow-up and hopefully my hearing will be improving by then!

Whew!  That was longer than I thought and there are lots of details I didn't even include!
The rest of the post will be shorter - I promise!

Keepin' It Real

It's hard to believe I started this blog almost 12 years ago.  I had absolutely no idea what I was doing (and in all honesty, I still don't).  I had just retired from a teaching career and thought a blog would be a great way to share about life at the little cottage we bought for our retirement.    
Three cottages later, many things have changed, but the one thing that hasn't changed is my commitment to 'keepin' in real'.   I've always shared my house projects, DIY's, furniture makeovers and more with complete transparency.  I've shared what worked and what didn't work, because, after all, that's reality, not AI.
Over the years, many bloggers decided to monetize their blogs.  Ads, digital products, and affiliate marketing all became a part of the blogging world.  I resisted it because that was not the focus of my blog and, in all honesty, I didn't want to worry about SEO, traffic, or search engines.  
I'm retired and I didn't want another job!  
I also didn't want my blog to have ads popping up over my content.  Just not my style.
A while back, I did 'cave' and became an Amazon Associate.  In my posts, you've probably seen the text in blue that will lead you to a product on Amazon that I used in that project.  That's my limit.

Now I know it's not polite to talk about money (at least that's what I was taught.) but if I told you how much (or should I say 'little') I make in a year from those links you'd laugh.  Let me just say, any click on my links is appreciated. Prime Days are coming up in a few days and no, I won't be sharing a 'Favorite Prime  Purchases' post.  Again, not my style. I'm a teacher, not a salesperson.

So, please come back.  Read about my latest project or adventure. Maybe click a link and/or leave me a comment?  Why?  Because I hope I'll teach you something, or at least share something fun and I love hearing from you!

Life at the Cottage
Since I've been a bit limited due to my ear surgery, I haven't done a lot of creating, but I've managed to get a few shots of butterflies in my garden!




I'm thinking this garden should be named "The Butterfly Garden".  We've also seen a hummingbird but he's a little camera-shy!

We went to an estate sale this week and I picked up a few goodies:
Lots of lace for future craft projects.

Always needed for a wine bottle wind chime!

The sweetest little flower pot!

So, that's life lately.  I have a few ideas for some projects and makeovers so I'd better get busy. My doctor said I can start to bend and lift - slowly and gently - I don't want to put a lot of pressure on that new eardrum. 
Fortunately I have a wonderful husband who is always there to help and believe me, he was doing EVERYTHING around here for a while.  I'm a lucky gal!

Have a great week, Everyone and I'll see you soon!


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  1. This is such a breath of fresh air. Real, raw and true. Thank you for sharing! :)

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    1. Thank you so much, Kristen.  I hope you'll be back for more reality!

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  2. You have been through so much! I hope you ear will heal well and also your other ear after suregery, and that you hearing will improve! It must be so stressful to go though all of this while setting up a new home. Your butterfly photos are beautiful! I am only seeing yellow swallowtail butterflies here right now.

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    1. Yes, it's certainly been a journey, Pat.  Some days are really frustrating, but I'm hopeful!  
      I love my butterflies and just yesterday my husband saw a yellow swallowtail. You must have sent him our way!

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  3. Those experiences with your ear sound rough! I hope you'll heal well and everything will improve. LOVE your butterfly photos. Congrats on 12 years of blogging! Wow. :) I've never monetized my blog, but I can appreciate that it didn't turn out quite the way you might have envisioned. Thank you for sharing this at the Will Blog for Comments #86 linkup. Wishing you a wonderful week. We're looking forward to seeing you at #87, which opens Monday morning.

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    1. Thank you, Jennifer.  I'm hoping this is the home-stretch for my ear saga!  I love watching my butterflies and as for monetizing the blog, it is what it is.  I never got into it for the money and I've met some wonderful people that I never would have otherwise.  New friends are priceless!

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  4. I'm so glad you're on the mend, Ann! Ear surgery is really serious and is definitely nothing to joke about. But you seem to be maintaining a good sense of humor about everything you've been through and going through! Thank goodness for husbands!!!! On a brighter note, the pictures of your butterflies and flowers look amazing! They're oh, so colorful and vibrant! Have you ever considered photography as a hobby? Enjoy!

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    1. Thank you so much, Gail. I am hopeful that my hearing will return. I just have to be patient - something I'm not really good at! Yes, thank goodness for husbands - mine is the best. He actually walked me around the house for the first several days because my balance was so bad.
      I love my butterfly garden...as for a new hobby? Probably not, but thanks for the vote of confidence, my friend!

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  5. What an ordeal with your ear! Hope things get better fast! Love the beautiful pics of the butterflies. We haven't seen many here so far.
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    1. Thank you, Mireille.  Fingers crossed this will soon be resolved.  I hope you see some butterflies soon.  They are just magical!

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  6. Ann, I've been following your ear issues from Auntie-biotics to the surgery...but seeing your entire story in print is really something else. My goodness. I'm so glad the worst of it is behind you know. I hope it stays that way. And yes! I vote for the butterfly garden. Those photos are fantastic!

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    1. You have, Kim.  Actually writing it all down was really something else for me, too!  Fingers crossed I'm at a the turning point.

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  7. That is quite an ordeal with your ears; I sure hope the surgery works! I am like you with my blog and just can not be bothered with ads, affiliate links, SEO and the like. I do sometimes share what I've bought on Amazon but I don't even have that linked to make me any money. I just share the things we buy and genuinely like. Your butterfly photos are fabulous! I haven't really noticed any butterflies in our garden at all this year.

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    1. It has, Joanne and I hope these surgeries will bring an end to it all.  As for blogging and monetizing, everyone has their own thoughts on it.  Many are making money and good for them.  I just don't want the work that goes along with it.  I'll see if I can send some butterflies your way...I have lots!

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  8. I am glad you are getting some results. Sometimes it takes a new perspective which you have in your move now. I love all of your butterfly pictures, they are beautiful, and some I have never seen in person before. I only seem to have one that visits me and he is orange and black.

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    1. Thanks, Cara. The butterflies really are loving my zinnias, as are the bees.  Trying to keep those pollinators happy!

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  9. I think the heat is getting to me because I forgot to put the features in today's "Tuesdays with a Twist" blog hop - lol.
    Anyway, this lovely post is one of the features that is now in the post.
    Thank you so much for sharing.
    Angie

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    1. Thank you so much, Angie.  The heat seems to be everywhere - so thankful for AC!

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  10. I certainly hope you are on the mend and in September you get the best news! I can't imagine not sneezing! That seems almost impossible. And wowza on the "Butterfly Garden". Your photos are stunning. Hope you have a wonderful holiday this weekend.

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    1. Thank you so much, Cindy.  It's certainly been quite a journey and I hope this will put an end to it.  
      Have a wonderful weekend,

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